Kunyaza: African sex technique for female orgasms

"Bad sex" is a disease. This happens mostly for women. There isn't a measure for "good sex" either, but pleasure and fun pretty much sums it up.

The technique is simple and has been passed on by word of mouth in central African countries for at least 150 years. The man takes hold of his penis and uses the head to tap the woman’s clitoris, labia and vaginal opening.

He can move the rhythmic tapping around the vulva in circular or zigzagging movements. The tapping can be varied with rubbing, also using the tip of the penis.

It’s important that there’s plenty of lubrication from the start, otherwise the tapping can be too sensitive – a little saliva works wonders.

If after a while the man’s wrist gets tired, the woman can get hold of his penis and take over. And women also sometimes help out by holding open their labia to intensify the sensation.

This can be taken a notch for more pleasure, where the man can alternate between penetrating the vagina, and rubbing the vulva with the head of his penis.